1. Stop calling him “sweet names” like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.
We know you’re a “lovie duvie” but biko, control it enh…don’t give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.
2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts, especially when you’re ‘courageous’.
You visit a guy whose ear has filled with topics like ‘How ladies behave when they want to get laid”. If you don’t have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.
3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls
You don’t want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he’s making headway, relationship-wise. You’re not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.